6 Great Tips for Balancing Work & Personal Life

 

 

 

 

 

 

From Marley Majcher, The Party Goddess

The one thing I hear the most complaints about from entrepreneurs lately is the blurring of work and personal life.  More and more, it seems, our work is overtaking our personal lives. But no matter how much people try to convince us this is a good thing under the auspices of authenticity and alignment, it has its drawbacks.

No matter how you slice it, integrating your work and personal life does a number on work-life balance. But getting a handle on this and creating as much balance as possible will improve your health, happiness and overall satisfaction with life.

Lately, I hear some people giving up on the idea of balance all together, claiming it's impossible so we should just deal with it. That striving for balance is just setting ourselves up for more stress and disappointment when it doesn't work out.  While there is some truth to that, I think it's critical to do what you can to protect your personal life from being overrun by your business.

Here are 6 great tips for balancing work and personal life.

Learn the art of presence

You don't have to be a new age "woo woo" type to appreciate the concept of presence.  Some people arrive at achieving presence through a meditation practice, but if that's not your style, no worries.  Having presence simply means being fully aware and focused in the current moment - bringing your all to the present time, rather than being distracted by the past (even a few minutes ago), the future (what you're getting ready to do), or other distractions (what you should be doing).  If you find yourself drifting in thought, just practice making yourself aware of the moment again.  You won't believe how alive and connected this makes you feel, as you transition from work to personal life and back to work. Try it.

Set normal work hours

Entrepreneurs are notorious for being "always on."  I know this might come as a shock, but you do not have to work 24 hours a day to be a successful entrepreneur. You don't have to work the same set hours every day. You can set your schedule around your personal needs, but your set hours should not be so flexible that you find yourself constantly having to make up missed work time during your designated personal time.  The important people in your life should know and respect your work hours as if you are working for a boss - no interruptions unless it is a legitimate emergency.

Take care of yourself

Nothing makes you feel more drained and out of whack then not taking proper care of your body.  A healthy diet, regular exercise and adequate sleep will do absolute wonders for your stress levels.  You will be able to show up more fully and bring your A-game when you need it, so you can unwind and fully relax when you're done.  And treating yourself to a spa day, massage,  the occasional afternoon of retail therapy, or some quality time in nature will do wonders for your soul. Work will feel less daunting when you feed your personal needs.

Learn to say no

I give this advice all the time.  Learning to say no is one of the best things you will ever do for yourself, your business, and your sanity. The world opens up for you when you learn to yes to the right opportunities and no to the wrong ones.  Saying no gives you power over your life and allows you to create space for more balance.

Play hard

How many times have you heard a successful person say, "I work hard and play harder." Successful entrepreneurs who take their play as seriously as their work have something we all want - a contagious spirited zest for life. You know how to get it? Make play a priority. Commit to a hobby or an activity. Schedule it in.  Make sure it's something exhilarating for you  - scuba diving, knitting afghans, performing poetry - doesn't matter what it is. Something you've always wanted to do, but you thought people would laugh or that you don't have time. Go for it! When it's time to sit back down to work, it will have been worth the time you put into it because you'll have the sense that you're truly enjoying life.

Enlist help

The most dissatisfied, overworked, run down entrepreneurs are the ones who try to do everything on their own. You have to learn to delegate and let go.  Consider hiring help at home and at work, even before you think you can afford it. I'm not suggesting you put yourself into a tight bind, but I am saying to make hiring help a priority in both your company and your family budget.  Additionally, lean on friends and family members for support.  Building a support system around you is a critical step in achieving greater work-life balance.

What do you do to ensure balance in your work and personal life? Post a comment below.

Marley Majcher is the author of But Are You Making Any Money? and the CEO of The Party Goddess!, a nationally acclaimed full-service catering and event planning company that originates all aspects of large scale functions for A-list celebrities, social, and corporate clients alike. From understated elegance to rock star fabulous, Majcher is known for creating the most talked about parties of the year.

Comments

[BRYANDANGEROUS]

Great advice. So simple to do and sometimes the simple things get over looked. Thanks for the insight!

[Dianna Shitanishi]

Great tips, one of the things we did this year was "set" office hours and also days off to rejuvenate our bodies and mind.

[Kim Sullivan]

Thanks Dianna. Great advice! As business owners we sometimes forget that we need down time to rejuvenate ourselves.

It's important not to become trapped in the workaholic cycle which leads to burn out. As creative, multidimensional people we have to take time to nurture the other areas of our lives that are important to us.

Thanks for sharing what is working for you!

[Princess Party Planner]

Amazing how simple it can be to communicate with people and have them understand a certain topic, you made my day.

[Kim Sullivan]

Awesome! Thank you.